Character

1. I think that character is the center pole for several reasons. The first is a result of the quote that was shared at the very beginning of class which reads,  “Our research shows that a person who receives low marks on character has absolutely no chance of being perceived as a good leader.” If a leader has no character, then their other strengths are difficult to see and it ends up being very detrimental to the leader and those they lead.

A leader in my life who demonstrated character is the former mayor of Rexburg. I was on the Mayor's Youth Advisory Board all through high school and so I had a unique opportunity to work closely with him and some of the other city officials. I was on the board during election season one year, and there was a group of people in the city who started to slander him and make some heavy accusations. I can't imagine it was easy for him to have to continue serving as mayor through all the harsh words, but he continued to do his job to the best of his ability. Eventually he and his family made the decision to move because of the current situation. What impressed me about him was that he continued to serve diligently and to the best of his ability for several months after he knew he would be leaving Rexburg. Obviously he had no choice but to keep working, but the level at which he executed his duties was beyond what was required. This experience taught me to always do my best and to persevere through rough times. Those you lead won't always like what you're doing, but sometimes you just have to keep going.

2. I loved the Mormon Message video that we watched. It's always good to get a reminder about our "true identity" every now and then. I've been struggling a little bit with my PDs lately, but after getting that reminder from the lesson I felt more able to handle everything. I loved the quote at the end too. It's so true! Who are we not to be fabulous and wonderful? We are all children of God. When we think about our divine heritage it makes it easier to go through "growing pains" as we grow and develop here on earth, and especially right now while serving in BYUSA. I want to share that video and quote with my PDs now.

As funny as it sounds, I also thought it was good advice when we were told to "focus on [ourselves]." We need to focus on our divine self and understand our identity before we are able to help others. My mom gives me this same advice sometimes. She tells me, "There's a reason that the airplane safety videos tell you to put on your own mask before helping others." You aren't able to help others until you understand your role first. Sometimes we need to be a little selfish. :)